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Wednesday, September 21, 2011

Self-esteem

One of my own personal weakness, is to say NO... to reject, self-esteem.
Yes, I'm lashing out one of my biggest weakness to the world, so please don't use this to your advantage >__<'' especially guilt-tripping (Thanks May n Bec for teaching me that word :)).

But I believe, by telling the world about it, I'll grow to become more self-tolerant into changing myself. I came across an article that I thought might help me, and thus these are the things that I have to plant inside my head:

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The right to your own values, opinions and emotions
The right to change, enhance and develop your life in your own way
The right to decide how and where to lead your life and establishing own priorities and goals.
The right not to justify feelings or behaviour to others
The right to respect your needs and limits
The right to tell other how you wish to be treated
The right to say "NO"
The right to take the necessary time and support to formulate your ideas and wishes before expressing them.
The right to ask for help and information without having negative feelings of shame or guilt
The right to make mistakes
The right to change your mind or sometimes act illogically
The right to like yourself even through you are not perfect
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I'll do my best to not hurt anyone's feelings.
But if I do go overboard, then I have my rights to do so >:)

2 messages:

May said...

lool guilt tripping! don't worry we all easily fall into this trap , i've gotta stop being a yesman too :(

as long as your honest to yourself then you have nothing to be afraid of :)

Jordan said...

Thanks May ^^!
See you on Sunday k :).

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